Okay, so earlier I was wondering if women just responded better when guys acted like assholes. And most of the guys were like, “yeahhh!” and most of the women were like, “no, we love gentlemen” except for a few who were on the other side.
And I seriously thought about this because in most of my experiences with women, they could’ve been better had I been slightly less nicer.
I’m the guy that’ll text you every morning, tell you that you’re beautiful, a lot of stuff that when I looked back on it made me think of myself as one thing: a sucker.
Women love that stuff, that I’m not denying … but I think when they see a guy doing that, they know they can always come back to him. Because 9/10, the women I see that are trying to talk to me, or I’m friends with, or just observing … they’re either coming off of a relationship from a shady dude, or with one. And they’ll talk about how he was such an asshole … but they love him and that’ll never change. So honestly, I sit there and I think, “well if he was an asshole, and he got a girl like you … then what am I doing here?”
Now, I don’t want to be the kind of guy that just ignores a girl that I like. Doesn’t respond to her texts, talks down to her, etc etc. I don’t want to. But ignoring a girl seems like the easiest way to get her to … notice you. Which is a mindfuck in itself, but makes total sense.
But then, would I want a girl who I have to ignore just to get to want me? I probably shouldn’t, but I do. Or did. Or will.
I’m definitely conflicted.
2 comments:
Don't ever turn into one of those assholes, ya heard?
Eric, you're one of the sweetest & most thoughtful guy ever. Don't ever change!
If they don't notice you, oh well.. they are missing out on something good.
Don't lower yourself to that level.
i completely agree with what she said (above)
their are so many asshole guys who always end up with the 'great' girls. but like you said would you really want a girl to want you if your being an asshole and who doesn't appreciate sincerity off rip?
if thats not who you are, you shouldnt do it.
I find myself in the same predicament (at times) wanting to make myself more noticeable (show more skin, act more dumb/easy) to get that guy from afar to notice. but then again, thats not fair to me. if he doesn't notice thats on him, his loss.
fI BET you theirs someone else looking. Who will appreciate you for everything you have to offer from the good, bad, handsome, ugly.. whatever.
I wish you NOTHING but the best.. (:
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